My Black Hair Journey
My journey toward long-lasting growth and health of my hair.
Monday, March 12, 2012
Roller set/Roller wrap with water!
Well I stumbled across a blog, www.dominicanblowout.com (which by the way was quite informative) and the owner of the blog happened to mention that she only used water and a bit of serum when roller setting her hair. Why didn't I think of that??? Because my hair is so fine, putting any kind of product on it weighs it down...then you add a moisture sealing roller set to it and of course you're going to get heavy hair, right? Right!
Sooo, I did another set tonight and my hair turned out amazing. It has incredible body and bounce and it was surprisingly really soft...even though I only used water. I still rubbed a little bit of coconut oil on it and sealed that in with a moisturizing oil but I am loving this roller set. Whoo hoo!
Saturday, March 10, 2012
ApHogee ProVitamin Leave-In Conditioner Product Review
Friday, March 9, 2012
Heavy hair with roller wrap
That being said, I have fine hair. My hair is actually kind of an odd texture because its fine but it gets really dry too. The problem I'm running into is that the roller wrap allows my hair to retain the moisture from the conditioner so it feels great. However after about 2 days, its really too heavy for me to wear out comfortably. In fact, at the beginning of the 3rd day, I think its ok...then half-way through the day I'm like, "ok, my hair is disgusting. I don't even want to touch/see it myself!". Now that might not sound like a long time but I'm accustomed to washing my hair every 3 days anyway because it is so fine, and holds onto product buildup like you wouldn't believe.
So, my new task is to come up with a way of roller wrapping that allows me to retain the moisture, but also have a lot more body than I'm getting from the way I'm doing it now. It may be my choice of products. I'm currently using the Aphoghee Leave-in conditioner and nothing else. I actually really like this conditioner because my hair is so soft when its dry. Actually now that I think about it, it couldn't be the Aphoghee because my hair doesn't appear to be that heavy when I take the wrap down. Its only when I apply the oil to my hair that it holds on to it for dear life. But as we all know, the oil is necessary so its a Catch 22. I don't know. Ugh. A little frustrated here but I'll figure out the best balance/combination and share my findings.
Tuesday, March 6, 2012
Roller Wrap
Black Hair Mistakes
I'm quickly finding out that I couldn't have been more wrong! All the things I listed were in fact quite detrimental to my hair. It's a wonder that my hair remained so thick after all this time...must just be nature.
So what was so wrong with my hair regimen? EVERYTHING!
Mistake 1 - Washing my hair 3x/week! Although I have African-American hair, the strands themselves are quite fine and therefore hold on to products; I have build-up like you wouldn't believe! Needless to say, I thought washing it and getting rid of that buildup was the best thing I could do for my hair. In doing my research I found that not only was washing my hair so much damaging to it, but even when I wash it (oh, and hair enthusiasts prefer the term "shampooing") my goal is not to have "squeaky clean" hair.
Most retail shampoos have harsh sulfates that strip our hair. If used frequently, the hair becomes incredibly weak and prone to extreme breakage. Yeah so...me washing my hair that much was definitely not the way to go. However understanding that didn't solve the problem of me having fine hair that's prone to buildups. My savior has been the co-wash. I co-wash my hair every 3-4 days with a moisturizing conditioner. This way, my hair isn't stripped of the oils it needs to survive, yet I'm still able to rinse my hair out and get that "fresh look" that we all love. I now only shampoo my hair with a very mild shampoo (Essentious Exonerate) once/week, while co-washing in between.
Mistake 2 - Using minimal products. My efforts were great, as I had the right idea by not trying to block the hair shaft. However using nothing on my hair was not the way to achieve that goal. In hindsight, I'm really shocked I have/had any hair at all! LOL. I always liked my hair to be really bouncy and flowy so I put next to nothing on it, blow-dried it out, then flat ironed it (gulp). Now, I will admit it was always really pretty and I got endless compliments, BUT it never made it passed neck length. :-s
Research has revealed that our hair is the driest of all hair types and needs endless moisturizing to stay healthy. I now moisturize daily with Coconut oil (water-based) and seal it in with an African Pride herbal oil (oil-based moisturizer). **Africa's pride (or African - I can't remember right now) is an el-cheapo oil I picked up from Wal-Greens. It works just fine but I'll probably invest in something slightly better from the health food store after this is done. The idea is to moisturize the hair with a water-based moisturizer, and seal it in with an oil-based moisturizer. As I expand my research, I'll have more product reviews and insight as to what works best.**
Mistake 3 - Constant heat styling. Ok, I knew all along that heat styling wasn't good for the hair, but I had no idea just how bad it is for our hair. It really does just fry the hair to a crisp. I literally used heat all over my head every single day without giving it a second thought. Constant heat styling coupled with the lack of moisture on my hair??? Geez.
Because my hair is currently so short, I'm forced to use a little bit of heat here and there just to get it to look decent but sparingly. I haven't blow dried in about 2 months; I either air dry or roller set under the hood, and the flat iron is only used to smooth out portions of it that didn't wrap correctly or when I'm trying to make it through those last few days of a relaxer.
All in all, I've learned quite a bit and I think I'm off to a good start. This has become more of a way of life than I thought it would be...partially because I'm now obsessed with it. LOL. More to come...
Friday, March 2, 2012
1 month Hairfinity results...post relaxer
I'm not the best picture taker and I feel like I can't get a good shot of the progress but here goes. I was really pleased to see how much it has grown out and how noticeably thicker it's gotten. Whoo hoo! The back has always been my problem area and it's finally starting to break through. Grow baby grow!
Wednesday, February 29, 2012
1 month Hairfinity update!
Today is the last day before I get my relaxer. I'm really excited because if you look closely you can see how much growth I've had since taking hairfinity on february 3rd. I hope that my stylist notices all the growth I have tomorrow and she doesn't have to cut too much off because I've been really making an effort to keep it wrapped at night and the ends moisturized. Take a look at all the growth! So excited! I'm not entirely sure why my part looks enormous but other than that you can really see the new growth there. I will post the big reveal tomorrow!